Welcome to the Fleshlight New Zealand Buyers Guide - this is where you can read everything you want to know about the Fleshlight sex toy!

In an era where vibrators have been championed as a means for female sexual freedom and enjoyment, male sex products have remained something of a dirty, unwanted cousin to their female counterparts. By providing a quality, discreet, and tasteful product, we hope to change these perceptions and help bring the topic of male sexuality into the light of legitimacy and reason. With AIDS, violence, and unwanted pregnancy at epidemic levels, there is reason to be cautious. The Fleshlight sex toy will provide an outlet to express your fantasies and impulses in a safe, but highly pleasurable environment!

Why should I buy a Fleshlight?
Wow! There are many, many reasons why you should consider buying a Fleshlight, however we have put together our top 5 reasons...

Reason 1 - This is as close to the 'real deal' you'll get. The soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin¨ sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man.
Reason 2 - You call the shots! With a Fleshlight you are in control. Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires.
Reason 3 - Safe sex is great sex! he Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you're having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality.
Reason 4 - Improve your sexual stamina and performance. Whether you're a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation.
Reason 5 - A lifetime of sexual pleasure! With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners!

What are the dimensions of the Fleshlight and the inserts?

Fleshlight dimensions:
The Fleshlight case is approximately 10 inches (254 mm) in length and 4 inches (102 mm) in diameter at the larger end and 2-1/2 inches (63 mm) at the smaller end. The Fleshlight case is offered in grey and clear.

Canal diameters and textures:

I'm a first time buyer and need some advice! What Fleshlight should I order?
With nearly half a million sold, 90% of our customers start out with the Original Pink Lady.

Which insert is right for me?
This is, without a doubt, the most frequently asked question. Unfortunately there is no easy answer. Please consider several important factors:

Penis length/girth:
When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience.

Ranked from most tight to least tight: Ultra Tight, Super Tight, SIAC, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original.

Larger than average men often choose: Original Pink Lady or Speed Bump
Smaller than average men often choose: Super Tight or Sex In A Can.

Your options:

The first thing to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is an easy decision; just choose whatever colour suits you best. When you choose the ice colour, you are really selecting 'no colour'. The lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest. Make sure to choose an ice case, if you decide on an ice insert. Pink is by far our best selling colour, but the mocha is growing in popularity.

Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The non-descript is ideal for users that travel with their Fleshlight or someone who is concerned about family members/roomates discovering their sex toy. The mouth is choosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over the rest. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access.

The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide.

Remember that these are only suggestions that were developed based on sales records and customer testimonials

Which Fleshlight insert do you think best simulates real sex?
Fleshlight have something for everyone! With a variety of inserts and textures, it is possible to simulate a variety of sex methods. Below is a listing of the most favoured match-ups...
Vaginal Sex: Wonder Wave Lady
Anal Sex: Ultra Tight Butt
Oral Sex: Super Ribbed Mouth
Most Intense: Super Ribbed Butt

I am a virgin so what Fleshlight would you recommend?
The Fleshlight is a great place to start and with over 1,000,000 sold, you are certainly not alone. We all started as virgins at one point. Making the transition from hand to Fleshlight will feel strange, but it's one step closer to having real sex. Use the Fleshlight as a means of practicing and familiarizing yourself to the act of intercourse. When the opportunity arises for real sex, you will be able to enjoy it more and worry less. With enough practice you will be able to last longer during sex. The biggest mistake you can make is giving up too quickly. It takes time to learn new tricks and get comfortable with it. The closest to the real thing you will get is the Wonder Wave Pink Lady. The vagina orifice is modelled off of a real vagina, and the inside waves give an added sensation. Make sure to use plenty of lube and warm your Fleshlight in warm water before use. Try different positions and some hands-free methods to further simulate real sex as much as possible.

What Fleshlight would you recommend for someone that is uncircumcised?
Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with little to no problems at all. While using an adequate amount of lubricant is crucial for everyone, uncut men have stressed the importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Uncut men tend to favour the STU and the Original Fleshlights. The STU is favoured because its texture is less pronounced and it feels gentler on the foreskin, especially on the way out. The Original is equally favoured because it is completely smooth and the foreskin has less to get caught-up on. It's argued that the movement of the foreskin on the penis head is more sexually arousing than textures and requires less manual stimulation. Some uncut men have suggested the use of bands/rings or even a condom to keep the foreskin tightly pulled back. While this is suggested by some, this is certainly not necessary and use of a condom is never required.

So, what is the difference between the range of Fleshlights?

The Original (Regular)
This is the insert that started it all! The Original Fleshlight canal is 3/4" (19 mm) diameter and untextured. By untextured we mean smooth. Due to it liberal size, well-endowed and uncircumcised men tend to prefer this insert. If you have aggressively masturbated with your hand for a long time, then you might have noticed a decrease in penis sensitivity. The Original is a great way to transition away from your hand and regain penis sensitivity.

Speed Bump (SB)
The Speed Bump is more intense than the Wonder Wave, but less than the Super Ribbed. The texture of the Speed Bump is a repeating pattern of small bumps all evenly spaced along the length of the 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal. This gives the user a consistent sensation of dozens of tiny tips gently massaging your penis as you glide in and out. The added height of the bump makes it the tightest of the textured inserts, measuring slightly under 1/2" (13 mm). Jokingly referred to by our users as the "Tunnel of Love".

Ultra Tight (UT)
Man, that's tight! Very similar to the Super Tight for the same reasons mentioned above, but an even tighter canal. The Ultra Tight canal is 1/4" (10 mm) diameter and untextured. Meant for the men who like the tightest sex penetration, but also preferred by men who have below average girth. But don't let the tight diameter fool you! Average sized men will have no problem, due to the extra stretchy, soft material used on this and all other Fleshlights. The material will expand during insertion as long as you remember to use plenty of lubrication.

Stamina Training Unit (STU)
The Stamina Training Unit is the newest addition to the Fleshlight family, and was designed to most closely replicate the true sensation of intercourse. Often compared to the Speed Bump, which also has a 1/2" canal diameter, the STU is designed to provide an extremely pleasurable and challenging venue for those seeking to practice techniques and improve sexual stamina. As you enter the STU you will notice the smooth pillow-like texture massaging your penis, however as you get closer to the point of no return (orgasm)your penis naturally expands increasing the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity. As the sensation increases, you can train yourself to resist the urge to orgasm or allow the pleasure to take over. The purpose of providing this challenge is to allow you to learn to recognize when you are going to orgasm and provide experience in delaying the process should you desire. The Speed Bump in contrast is an extreme sensation throughout the whole use, right from the start. The STU is also reported to feel a lot gentler than the enhanced inserts on uncut men, especially on the way out. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling like "little fingers" tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense way. The STU canal is 1/2" (13 mm) and has a completely unique texture. Currently not available separate from the case, you may however swap out other inserts into the case.

Super Ribbed (SR)
This insert is as intense as it gets! The 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal is textured for maximum stimulation. Where the other inserts leave space between the textures, this insert features dozens of tightly packed soft ribs to keep your penis continuously stimulated. Be careful to not over lube this insert or you will lose the textured intensity.

Super Tight (ST)
When it comes to masturbating with the Fleshlight, some users demand realism while others prioritise sensation. The Super Tight appeals to the men seeking realism. The Super Tight insert is a smooth, untextured 1/2" (13 mm) diameter canal that is described as feeling "velvety smooth". The difference between the Super Tight and the Original Fleshlight is the decreased canal diameter. The Super Tight diameter is the same as the Speed Bump, Wonder Wave, and Super Ribbed, with the slight difference that the canal diameter is consistent from beginning to end, while the other three are tapered from larger to smaller. This also adds to the realism of the product when it comes to simulating sex. The Super Tight is most often paired up with the Butt orifice and used to simulate anal sex.

Wonder Wave (WW)
The first enhanced insert ever released, the Wonder Wave is the crowd favourite. The Wonder Wave canal diameter is 1/2" (13 mm) and textured with raised rings spaced approximately 1/2" (13 mm) apart. Less intense than the Super Ribbed and Speed Bump, the Wonder Wave was designed to most closely simulate the sensation of a woman's vagina. The Wonder Wave is perfect when paired up with the Lady orifice. There is a learning curve with the Wonder Wave and it sometimes takes a few sessions before some will truly enjoy it. The sensation of the Wonder Wave alternates between highs and lows, sending stimulating waves while pressing in and pulling out. That's how the insert got its name, because it's a wave of pleasure that comes and goes. Long, a slow stroke is described as the best way to use the Wonder Wave. It has also been suggested to use the Wonder Wave with the cap totally off or as little suction as possible.

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